I see people around me being tortured by love all the time, and I was one of the victims back then. Going through all these failures in love makes me understand, love can only bring happiness and the best out of someone. If you have been suffered or tormented, believe me, you are not in love all these times.
Not saying that I am an expert, but purely sharing my experience here. There are some people around me that I have words holding back from them sometimes. My motto is to be true to myself and everyone else, but there are moments that I just can't speak out.
God teaches us to LOVE, and with LOVE you can go where ever you want. Life is a journey that being given to everyone to experience LOVE. However, stalking to your partner, checking on cell phones, yelling at each other... This is not love. It looks like it, sounds like it, and everyone is doing the same thing; but sadly it is still not love.
Try to look for happiness, whatever makes you happy and harmless to others; then I believe you will find love within yourself. And I am a true believer of people have to love themselves first in order to love others.
Last but not least, I want to say, "Real men treat women with respect!" So people, please make sure you have your eyes wide open.
LOVE and HUGS...
